30 January 2005

intentions.

it aint enuff on its own. what every instance of human interaction needs is the pong in ping pong or the saw in see-saw. lol. yesh. the other party has to want to interact to. and this basic understanding is often lost in us all.

what we want is just that, its what WE want. what happens after knowing what we want is a different matter altogether. you may want to meet up with a certain friend. or chat with a certain someone. you call and make ur intentions known. and oft end up wondering why what you intended for isnt happening. people do that. and even i am not above it. sometimes i forget that when people meet up, its usually not only the intention of one party, but two. maybe its just the timing. maybe its because of a million other valid reasons. but it sometimes just boils down to the fact that the other party doesnt want any interaction at all. this is where things get screwed.

because if the other party doesnt make their intentions clear. a guessing game that sucks big time will follow. do we keep calling? or do we give up and possibly lose a friend? there happens to be no right or wrong answer. :) which leaves the only way that is to state your intentions in whatever you do that concerns human interaction. and pray a person with enough eQ to reply in a clear and concise manner that leaves no room for doubt. wouldnt that make the world a less f*cked up place where guessing games are few and far between? lol. i would think so.

what say you? :P

btw, this post has nothing whatsoever to do with certain olD frens that i was sposed to meet tonight. yesh ju, des,elsie etc. lol. :P us not meeting up just gave me time to put this down, something that someone else set me thinking about. :)

"if you call, i will answer. if you fall, i'll pick you up.."

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